ANDOVER is mourning the loss of Hermione May Bowsher, a vibrant spirit who dedicated her life to enriching the lives of others, particularly those with learning disabilities.
May passed away peacefully on December 7, at the age of 89, leaving behind a legacy of unwavering kindness, infectious laughter, and a community touched by her endless dedication.
Born and raised in Andover, May embraced life with an energy that never dimmed.
"Mum could run faster than the number 8 bus," said her son Michael, who learned that the hard way as a kid.
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Her academic prowess shone at Andover Girls School, where she led as head girl and graced the choir with her melodious voice.
Later, she transitioned seamlessly through diverse roles, from a meticulous solicitor's clerk to a compassionate mother's helper for a family with Down's syndrome, showcasing her adaptable and caring nature.
However, it was in 1978 that May found her true calling – the Mencap Senior Gateway Club.
For a remarkable 40 years, she steered this social group for adults with learning disabilities, turning it into a beacon of joy and connection.
"We went on boat trips, theatre outings, you name it," said Stephen.
"Mum made sure every activity was bursting with fun and inclusivity."
May's infectious smile and hearty laugh extended beyond the club, warming the hearts of family and friends.
"She adored John Wayne films and couldn't get enough of Inspector Morse," said Lesley, her daughter.
"And those family holidays in Weymouth she organised every summer? Unforgettable! The whole town seemed to know and love her," said Michael.
May's spirit of helping others wasn't confined to grand gestures.
Her children remember her pushing them to excel in their studies, instilling a strong work ethic that has stayed with them.
"She drummed into us that money doesn't grow on trees, and those Saturday jobs? They taught us valuable lessons about responsibility," Stephen said.
May's passing leaves a void, but her spirit lives on through the countless lives she touched.
As she said when she stepped down from Mencap, "I wouldn't say goodbye. I'm going to say see you in the town."
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And while her physical presence is gone, the echoes of her laughter, the warmth of her kindness, and the unwavering light of her dedication will continue to guide the way for all who knew and loved her.
May is survived by her four children, Neil, Stephen, Lesley, and Michael, her two grandsons David and Michael, and her three great-grandsons Bertie, Arthur, and Harry.
A memorial service was held at Charlton Park Crematorium on January 4, where the community gathered to celebrate her life and the indelible mark she has left on their hearts.
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